I’m back, and my website is finally online to the public again! I apologize for the downtime, but have been working on other projects, and finally came around to calling my hosting provider to resolve the problem.
A friend of mine sent me this video (below), and while I had seen it before, I rather enjoyed watching it again with a fresh perspective. Like Viktor Frankl found out during his time in a Nazi concentration camp, our only true free will resides in our attitude, and whether or not we will choose a positive focus, or a negative focus, aka, good or evil. Not to be confused with positive or negative thinking, which are both still a negative focus, a postie focus is able to, through an act of will and self control, completely stay out of the drama triangle of victim, villain, and hero, and to plant oneself firmly in the TED triangle of creator, challenger, and coach, and from that space, to create one’s reality in an intentional manner.
While we may not be able to control everything going on around us, we can control our focus, and how we relate to everything going on around us; this is done by harnessing a process of spiraling (transmuting) personal events in the microcosm that reflect events happening in the macrocosm, because while macrocosmic events are out of our control, microcosmic events are within our ability to control. To spiral events in our microcosm, we need to learn Lex Mercatoria, also known as “Law Merchant”, and to negotiate with our experiences with what’s called a “conditional acceptance”, which I have termed a “yes, but”, as this keeps us out of resistance (via a “no”), out of compliance (via a “yes” with explicit consent or silence with tacit consent), and allows us to keep creating our intentions through every offer/experience we negotiate with.
Each conditional acceptance (yes, but) we make in our microcosm experience further spirals the karmic momentum of negativity and is harnessed as fuel to further create our own greater vision for a better world. It also has the effect of closing down possible timelines that we as individuals were in alignment with, and brings our personal experience into a bottleneck of possible outcomes, because we are working through our own internal shadow aspects, which are our susceptibilities to different types of manipulative tactics, and we close them down one by one. At a certain point, we are at our own “zero point” and are no longer susceptible to external manipulation, and therefore external monarchy, but rather have fully internalized our own internal monarch/king, and will experience a life without external governance.
“With internal anarchy (no rulers) there is external monarchy (rulers), but with internal monarchy (the One ruler: the Logos), there is external anarchy (no rulers).” ~Mystical Axiom
To learn more about how to say “yes, but” to your experiences in order to negotiate with life, you can watch a podcast I was on last year, and/or buy my Boundary Magic class; both are found HERE.
THE UNITY PROCESS: I’ve created an integrative methodology called the Unity Process, which combines the philosophy of Natural Law, the Trivium Method, Socratic Questioning, Jungian shadow work, and Meridian Tapping—into an easy to use system that allows people to process their emotional upsets, work through trauma, correct poor thinking, discover meaning, set healthy boundaries, refine their viewpoints, and to achieve a positive focus. You can give it a try by contacting me for a private session.
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